Most problems are easy to solve. The solution leaps into your head the instant you understand the nature of the problem. In the course of our day we might solve a dozen, or even a hundred smallish problems (unclogging, plugging in, restarting, mediating, debugging, delegating, etc.). It’s one thing our giant brains evolved to excel at.
But every once in awhile we run into a real doozy — a problem so difficult or intractable that it truly stumps us. Maybe we’re half a million in debt, with no income to speak of. Maybe we have a chronic illness that has proven resistant to medicine and lifestyle changes. Maybe the behavior of a client, significant other, or family member has escalated to red alarm level — they’re destroying us or themselves and they’re out of control. Maybe we’ve invaded a country on false pretenses and now we’re stuck there and it’s costing us lives and billions of dollars. No easy solution springs to mind. What’s the best approach?